"What's Up With Her"18:30 Jan 11 2022
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There comes a time in every womans life, when she has to take a close look at herself. Not at her circumstances, not at what she did or didn't do, or not how unfair life is or isn't, or at whom made you do it. She has to just look at herself in all her glory and imperfections. For many women this is scary thing because often times they don't want to know the truth about themselves. Vitreous women know what I mean, as women we have a tendency to put one another down.
Maybe it makes us feel good or look better than the next woman, or maybe we just don't know how to tell that woman how we admire her. In reality we really need to look at ourselves and the pain we project towards other women. Have you ever admired a woman who has been through a lot of changes in her life, or have you made up your mind that she is just messed up? Before you make that mistake, take a closer look.
A woman who has endured the most unusual life is someone of Wisdom, someone who has been chosen by The Gods to go through things that have made her Stronger. Have you ever admired a single mother, or have you made up your mind that it's too bad she had children and for whatever reason she is Rasing them alone? Let me tell you a thing or two about that woman.
A single mother knows no bounds when it comes to her children, she is strong and durable, single mothers are strong not because they have to be, but because it comes naturally for them, to protect the essence of their very being her love for her children is like, that of fuel to a car. Most mothers keep their tanks full because they understand that if it runs low, you could jeopardize the car and have problems in the long run, other women only fill it up when it is needed, and their cars usually break down.
Have you ever wondered why some women are not approachable, or have you made up your mind that she is just mean or a BITCH, I used to think a quiet woman is a smart woman? She is venerable, she doesn't go off halfcocked and she won't be the one to argue with you over nothing, she just may even let you go on setting her straight no matter how violent it gets she backs out politely without a fight if she can, she doesn't let many people in her life for fear they will see right through her and know the makeup and bruises would only make it harder for her and after all she has been through the fire and back again and has to learn to rebuild her life, so why let just anyone in or close to her.
Have you ever wondered why that woman is so loud? Well, she finally has a lot to say, these are usually abused women who are lashing out at the world because of past or still present abuse who have not yet healed from the pain, and they don't yet know how to refrain, they are eager and unsettled, they do before they think, and they act before they talk ,they haven't yet realized there is nobody there to hurt or hit or put them in their place because they had a bad day anymore. It's all new and exciting but scary all at one time so men out there just bear with us we do figure it out.
Have you ever wondered about that woman who appears, to have everything, yet is still very unhappy? Well, she doesn't have everything yet because she still needs personal validation. This is something developed over many mistakes and many challenges that have taught lessons of the unbearable pain and pleasure and learning to trust again without judging others by what they have already been through, that comes when you let the healing truly begin.
Women are so quick to beat the next one down instead of trying to hold her up so before you wonder "What's Up with Her" look in the mirror and ask "What's Up with You" because that woman might just be me. Women are the carriers of life itself not the channels of DEATH or at least the ones of us who have survived and overcame all the different sides of a woman we are. Encourage and Love, Forgive and try to Forget and trust me, everyone in your life will be touched in some way shape or form for the best if they can ride out this rollercoaster you have gone on before they arrived. Never feel bad for what has happened to you because you're a Woman and you will endure the good times now and forever.
If you haven't realized who I was talking about it was and is me but I'm still holding onto all the memories because I draw strength from them to know it was ok for me to go through hell and back and I'm still here.
Written by Kay McGrath/paganwitch 2022
COMMENTS
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NyxsChaos
18:43 Jan 11 2022
I like this...
PaganWitch
19:16 Jan 11 2022
Thank you it took me a long time to get to this phase and write about it.